News | Considering Adoption https://consideringadoption.com A Trusted Adoption Resource Fri, 08 Mar 2024 17:26:27 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 https://consideringadoption.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/CA_Work_Sans_2-1-Favicon-150x150.png News | Considering Adoption https://consideringadoption.com 32 32 What to Know About Social Media and Adoption https://consideringadoption.com/what-to-know-about-social-media-and-adoption/ https://consideringadoption.com/what-to-know-about-social-media-and-adoption/#respond Mon, 03 Apr 2023 14:51:52 +0000 https://consideringadoption.com/?p=12657 Adoption has received backlash on social media recently, but what is the cause of it all? Here’s what you need to know about social media and adoption.

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Adoption is a life-changing journey that brings joy to many families around the world. It’s the opportunity to provide a child with a loving home and a brighter future. With social media becoming more prevalent, families have been able to connect with each other and share their stories online.

However, there has been a massive increase in negative feedback, particularly on platforms like TikTok. We’re here to dive deeper into why there has been a rise in adoption conversations on social media. And we’ll also take a look at how much adoption has changed throughout the years.

If you have any questions, contact us online to get more free information now.

Social Media and Adoption Explained

Using social media for adoption has undoubtedly changed the way we communicate and connect with each other. It has also been a useful tool for adoptive families to connect with birth parents, adoption agencies, and other families who have gone through the adoption process.

However, social media has also exposed some of the negative aspects of adoption. Social media influencer adoption has become increasingly popular, with many people sharing their adoption journeys with their followers. While this can be a positive way to raise awareness, many adoptees have turned to social media to share their experiences with adoption.

In the past, there was a lot of stigma surrounding adoption, and many adoptions were conducted in a secretive manner. This made it more common for adoptive families to choose a closed adoption, leaving adoptees to wonder about their past.

Adopted Children and Social Media

Now that adoption has been a hot topic on social media platforms like TikTok, adoptees are finding ways to express themselves and how they feel about adoption. Since they’re adopted themselves, they want to educate others on what it feels like to be adopted.

Adoption and the use of social media have become more common among adoptees that have had negative experiences with adoption. They use the platform to voice their concerns about adoption, and some even push for adoption reform. Although these experiences are valid, it’s important to recognize the evolution of adoption and what it consists of now.

Open adoption has become much more common than it was in the past. This allows adoptees to have access to information about their birth parents and their original birth certificate. Although this can’t eliminate adoptees’ trauma, it can help adoptees understand their identity and origin.

Adoptee Diana was placed in an open adoption in 1991. She continues to advocate for open adoption contact as it helped her have a positive view of adoption.

“I credit the openheartedness of my birth and adoptive families as the reason why I have such positive feelings toward my adoption,” Diana said. “There are a lot of adoptees who struggle with a lack of information and history, and many are also struggling with racial or cultural identity. If you’re considering adoption, you must first consider the needs of every type of adoptee and make sure that you’re ready to meet those needs.”

Benefit of Modern Day Adoptions

Despite the challenges associated with social media and adoption, adoption has drastically changed from how it was in the past. It can provide a loving home and a bright future for children who may not have had these opportunities otherwise.

Many national adoption agencies put birth mothers in control of the process. They’ll get to decide if they want to maintain contact with their child, whether they want to hold their baby after birth and much more. Birth mothers will also get access to free, 24/7 emotional support and counseling to ensure they’re 100% sure of their decision.

For adoptees, they’ll get the chance to build and maintain a connection with their birth parents. National adoption agencies recognize the benefits of open adoption contact for adoptees, which is why these agencies only work with adoptive parents who are comfortable with open adoption contact.

As adoptees grow and ask more questions about their adoption, it’s helpful for birth and adoptive parents to have a positive relationship. The decision to pursue an open adoption is the birth mother’s choice, and while these agencies will never force a birth mother into contact they aren’t comfortable with, there’s education available about how beneficial post-placement contact can be for themselves and their child. Contact an adoption agency today for more free information.

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Could Coronavirus Impact Your Adoption? https://consideringadoption.com/could-coronavirus-impact-your-adoption/ https://consideringadoption.com/could-coronavirus-impact-your-adoption/#respond Fri, 13 Mar 2020 18:15:00 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7712 If you are in the middle of the adoption process, you’re probably anxious about how coronavirus could affect you. Here, we are providing some basic information about COVID-19 and how it could impact your adoption.

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After dominating the headlines, canceling events and even shutting down The Happiest Place on Earth, coronavirus is now at the forefront of millions of Americans’ minds. The outbreak has affected nearly every aspect of life — and, for many waiting families, that includes adoption.
If you are a hopeful parent in the middle of the adoption process, you’re probably anxious about how this global health concern could affect you — and the child you are hoping to adopt. Here, we are providing some basic information about COVID-19 and how the virus could potentially impact your adoption.
Please keep in mind that we are not medical professionals, and nothing in this article should be taken as medical advice. Please consult your doctor with any medical concerns. Because this is a rapidly developing situation, please visit the World Health Organization for the most up-to-date information. 

The Potential Effects of COVID-19 on Adoption

As the number of confirmed COVID-19 cases in the U.S. continues to rise, many families are starting to see an impact on their adoption processes. You should speak directly with your adoption professional about any changes to their policies or procedures and for more information about how coronavirus could affect your specific circumstances. Here, we have provided just a few potential scenarios that could happen if you are adopting during the coronavirus outbreak.
Coronavirus could impact your adoption if you are:

  • Adopting internationally – Families adopting from China were among the first to feel the effects of the coronavirus outbreak. International adoption agencies began canceling travel for adoptive families as early as January, and as the virus has spread around the globe, more and more adoption programs have been experiencing delays and suspending their services. At this time, it is unclear how long these delays in international adoption may last. Adoptive parents should coordinate directly with their adoption service provider for guidance and information.
  • Visiting a hospital for placement – Hopeful parents who are traveling to the hospital for an adoption opportunity with a prospective birth mother may face new restrictions as the spread of COVID-19 continues. Hospital policies are subject to change quickly and will likely vary from one hospital to the next. However, families should be prepared for potential limitations on the number of visitors allowed, reduced visiting hours and/or restrictions on visiting certain parts of the hospital. Potential birth and adoptive parents should continue to communicate with their adoption professionals about any changes in the hospital plan.
  • Flying with a newborn – While there are currently no travel restrictions within the United States, some families pursuing domestic infant adoption have struggled to obtain the medical clearance necessary for them to fly home with their babies. Because of this, families traveling for an interstate adoption placement should be prepared to drive home with their newborns following ICPC. Consult with your doctor and the airline for more information on their specific policies.
  • Adopting in the U.S. while living overseas – American citizens who are stationed abroad may also face challenges and delays in their adoptions from the U.S. Because of the new restrictions on travel from Europe, it may be difficult for families in certain countries to travel back to the U.S. for placement. These families should work with their adoption agency to understand whether they will be able to accept an adoption opportunity in the U.S. while travel restrictions are in place.
  • Awaiting ICPC or finalization ICPC clearance may be delayed for some adoptive parents, as some government offices may be impacted by the coronavirus. Similarly, court dates may be postponed for some adoptive families during this time. Reach out to the adoption agency or attorney who filed ICPC on your behalf and/or your finalizing attorney for any updates on the estimated timelines for these processes.
  • Exhibiting symptoms – Regardless of the type of adoption they are pursuing, any adoptive parent exhibiting symptoms of the coronavirus should notify their adoption professional immediately. The CDC is urging people who have symptoms of a respiratory illness to contact their healthcare providers and to stay home to prevent the potential spread of the coronavirus. As such, any parent exhibiting symptoms should immediately contact their adoption professional and delay all adoption-related travel until a doctor confirms they can safely travel without spreading the illness.

What Should Adoptive Parents Do?

For many hopeful parents, the coronavirus can feel like one more unexpected development in a process that is already largely out of their control. However, there are a few things every adoptive parent can and should do during this time to put their minds at ease and keep themselves as healthy as possible:

  • Follow CDC guidelines: All adoptive families, regardless of the type of adoption they are pursuing or where they are in the process, should continue to follow CDC guidelines and protocols to protect themselves and help reduce the spread of the virus.
  • Communicate with your professionals: If you have specific questions about your agency’s policies on the coronavirus or how it may impact you in your specific circumstances, contact your adoption professional. In addition, you should communicate any developments in your own health or your adoption process to your professional as quickly as possible.
  • Talk to your doctor: If you experience any symptoms of coronavirus (fever, tiredness, cough, etc.), you should contact your healthcare provider to determine next steps for receiving care. If you are concerned that your child or a prospective birth parent has been exposed to the coronavirus or is experiencing symptoms, your doctor can also address those concerns and educate you about any potential risk to your child.
  • Stay up to date: Finally, remember that this is still a developing situation, and hospital and adoption agency policies could change at any time. Continue to follow the CDC and WHO for the latest information.

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National Developmental Disabilities Month: Special Needs Adoption https://consideringadoption.com/national-developmental-disabilities-month-special-needs-adoption/ https://consideringadoption.com/national-developmental-disabilities-month-special-needs-adoption/#respond Mon, 02 Mar 2020 13:00:00 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7546 March is National Developmental Disabilities Month. But what does this mean for adoption?

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As a hopeful adoptive parent, you have a lot of choices: what type of agency to work with, where you’d like to adopt from and — maybe most importantly — what type of child you’d like to adopt. These choices will shape your entire adoption experience.
With March being National Developmental Disabilities Month, it might be time to start thinking of your other options when it comes to adopting a child.
National Developmental Disabilities Month seeks to raise awareness of those who live with seen and unseen disabilities. As a community, we can all do our part to build a diverse society that celebrates every individual. This is also an opportunity to spread awareness about the challenges facing those living with disabilities.
You may also think about the children eligible for adoption and living with disabilities.
Adopting a child with special needs can be extremely rewarding, for you and for them. But, there’s a lot that you should know before you make a huge decision like this. Remember, a child with special needs is just like any kid. You’ll just need to do plenty of research to make sure that you can meet all of their needs and give them the love and support they deserve.

Special Needs Adoption in Foster Care

Adopting a child through foster care is a rewarding and fulfilling opportunity. You get the chance to build the family of your dreams while a child gets to feel the love from a family that they’ve always dreamed of.
There are many types of children available for adoption from foster care. But, how many of the children adopted from foster care are living with special needs?
If you’re thinking about becoming a foster parent, you should be prepared for any and all situations. And that includes a special needs adoption. In foster care, the term “special needs” don’t always refer to a disability. It can also include characteristics like being an older child, being part of a sibling group and needing to be placed together, or having a specific medical condition.
Because of this broad definition, many of the children in foster care have some type of special needs. In fact, according to the National Council for Adoption, the number of children adopted from a public agency with special needs hit almost 50,000 in 2014.

Special Needs Adoption in International Adoption

While most families think about foster care or private adoption, others consider adopting from another country. Although this used to be a popular way to grow a family, the rate of international adoptions continues to decline. Many countries are even shutting their doors entirely to U.S. couples looking to adopt a child.
However, there are still programs in place for families that are looking to adopt a child with special needs. If you’re considering a special needs adoption from another country, there’s a lot to think about. You’ll need to become familiar with the requirements for your chosen country, as well as the specific needs of your future child. It might be challenging, but it can be worth it in the end.
If you’re looking to adopt a child with special needs from another country, here a few programs to contact:

Special Needs Adoption in Private Adoption

Every year, thousands of prospective parents consider adopting a newborn or an infant. As a waiting parent pursuing a private adoption, you can choose what you’re comfortable with when it comes to the type of child you’re adopting. Your adoption specialist will work with you to find an opportunity that’s just right for your family.
If you’re thinking about adopting a child with special needs from a private agency, here are a few that you can contact:

What You Can Do to Support National Developmental Disabilities Month

When you look at special needs adoptions across all types of adoption, the total comes to almost 70,000 in 2014. That’s huge! But, what can you do if you’re not ready to adopt?
There are plenty of ways that you can get involved today to support a child with special needs. Don’t forget to share your support of National Developmental Disabilities month on social media!
You might also think about starting a fundraiser in honor of this month. If you’re interested, get started with GoFundMe.
When starting your own fundraiser, remember to stay safe online. Here are a few tips for doing just that and for making sure your money goes to the right people.
If you are interested and ready to start your family-building journey, a trained adoption specialist would love to help. Reach out to one today to learn more about how you can adopt a child with special needs.

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What to Know About the 2019 Adoption Tax Credit https://consideringadoption.com/what-to-know-about-the-2019-tax-credit/ https://consideringadoption.com/what-to-know-about-the-2019-tax-credit/#respond Fri, 14 Feb 2020 13:00:00 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7462 Before you file your taxes this year, learn more about the federal Adoption Tax Credit — and how you can use it to offset some of the adoption-related expenses you had in building your family.

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If you adopted in 2019, you may have spent a fair amount of money on adoption-related expenses. Fortunately, you can balance those out with a tax advantage this year: the Adoption Tax Credit.
The Adoption Tax Credit exists to offset the expenses that many adoptive parents pay in building their family. Whether you adopted through foster care, international adoption or private infant adoption, you can use the Adoption Tax Credit when filing this year.
If your adoption was finalized in 2019, you can receive a nonrefundable credit of $14,080. As long as you spent that much on eligible adoption expenses, you can receive the full credit to cover some tax obligations (for up to five years, if necessary).
Taxes can be confusing by themselves; throw in adoption, and they can get even more complicated. That’s why we encourage every adoptive parent to work with a tax professional during filing to ensure their paperwork is completed accurately. Check out a few tips for finding a tax professional here.
In the meantime, you can check out these resources to learn more about the 2019 tax credit:

Please note: We are not tax professionals, so the information in this article is not intended to be nor should be used as financial advice.

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What is Orphan Hosting? https://consideringadoption.com/what-is-orphan-hosting/ https://consideringadoption.com/what-is-orphan-hosting/#respond Mon, 10 Feb 2020 13:00:00 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7538 World Orphan Week is held every year in the second week of February. In honor of this week, we’d like to take a moment to raise awareness for the needs of orphans around the world.

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Families come together from all walks of life. No matter how you choose to become a parent, giving a child the love of a family is an amazing gift. But, unfortunately, not every child has had the chance to experience this amazing feeling.
World Orphan Week, originally established in 2005, is held annually during the second week of February. This event raises awareness for the large number of children around the world missing one or both of their parents. Although the term “orphans” isn’t widely used in American culture today, it’s still common in other parts of the world like China, Russia and Haiti.
Each year, the number of children in this painful situation grows. Many of them are older with little hope of being adopted, and very few of them have a positive frame of reference for life outside of an orphanage. Even worse, most of them struggle to imagine what a loving family could look like.
But, hope isn’t lost.
Hopeful adoptive families can consider something called “orphan hosting.” If you’ve never heard of it before, the details can be somewhat confusing. No worries — we have the answers you need here during this year’s World Orphan Week.

What is Orphan Hosting?

Orphan hosting brings a child to the U.S. to help get them exposure and, hopefully, get them adopted. Typically, hosting lasts for about four to five weeks during the summer. There are also holiday programs available for families who want to give a child the gift of being loved during the hardest times of the year.
In some cases, hosting a child from a different country can even lead to adoption, which is a bonus for families who have adoption as their end goals.
Orphan hosting is a life-changing experience for children around the world and an incredibly eye-opening experience for the families that welcome these children into their lives. If you’ve always thought about helping a child from another country, this is one of the best ways to do so.
This program allows your family to share the gift of togetherness with a child in need. Not only does it allow a child to expand their horizons, it also gives them the amazing opportunity to feel the love of a family for the very first time.

How Does Orphan Hosting Work?

Hosting an orphan from another country is easier than it sounds.
Host families often need to meet certain eligibility requirements. Before you can host, you should expect to provide some information — including your health history, financial situation, education and more. You can learn more about what those requirements are here.
If you’re thinking about this path, you can learn more about becoming a volunteer here. You can also learn more about opportunities to become a backup host family, a chaperone host family and an airport coordinator. There are also a few other organizations you might think about working with if you’re hoping to host a child from another country:

How You Can Get Involved Today

There are plenty of ways that you can show your support for World Orphan Week!
As with any organization, one of the hardest parts about World Orphan Week is making the message known. You can do your part by spreading the word on social media or in your own community. You can also share fact sheets, flyers and brochures about World Orphan Week with people you know. Education is one of the best places to start, so don’t be afraid to share what you know.
Another option is to start your own fundraiser for orphaned children around the world. This can be a great way to show how much you care.  There are plenty of platforms, like GoFundMe, CrowdRise and YouCaring, that you can use to get started. Like with anything on the internet, however, it’s important to stay safe. Transfer all funds directly, keep track of everything you donate, and protect yourself from online scams. For more tips on how to stay safe, start here.
If you’re thinking about starting a fundraiser for a specific organization, here are a few names to check out:

Of course, there isn’t a limit to what you can do to show your support. Feel free to get creative for this year’s World Orphan Week!

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News: Coronavirus Impacts International Adoption https://consideringadoption.com/news-coronavirus-impacts-international-adoption/ https://consideringadoption.com/news-coronavirus-impacts-international-adoption/#respond Fri, 31 Jan 2020 15:46:21 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7530 As the world learns more each day about the novel coronavirus spreading from Wuhan, China, the impacts of the virus on all aspects of life are beginning to crystalize. Airlines are shutting down flights, factories are shifting work to alternate locations and some trade has screeched to a halt. Adoption has not escaped the effects of this global health concern.

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As the world learns more each day about the novel coronavirus spreading from Wuhan, China, the impacts of the virus on all aspects of life are beginning to crystalize. Airlines are shutting down flights, factories are shifting work to alternate locations and some trade has screeched to a halt. Adoption has not escaped the effects of this global health concern.
Families preparing to travel to China and families currently in China for placement have found themselves in a nearly unprecedented situation. International adoption can be more challenging because of the unexpected twists and turns inherent to any process involving multiple countries. There are more laws to navigates, language differences to maneuver around and international travel to organize. But this is something that no one could have seen coming.
Some families, like this adoptive family from Dallas, were able to return home with their newly adopted son despite the travel warnings. They took health precautions while traveling and will monitor their situation now that they are home.
Other families, however, will not be so lucky. A Minnesota family that was preparing to travel to China next month for placement with their son have been informed that the trip is cancelled. They are planning to adopt a 5-year-old boy from Wuhan. Now along with being unable to travel, they have the additional concern of their future son catching the virus.
Holt International, one of the largest international adoption agencies in the country, announced that they will be temporarily cancelling all adoptive family travel to China. While this move is a responsible and rational response, it is undoubtedly devastating to any adoptive families who were preparing to travel. Many wait months and years for this moment, and it is now delayed by an unexplained virus.
It is unknown how long the coronavirus will continue to spread and how long this travel logjam will last. Along with international airlines cancelling flights to and from China, the country itself has begun shutting down significant portions of public transportation, making in-country travel difficult as well.
The long-term impact of this virus on international adoption may be drastic. The U.S. has seen a decline in international adoption since its peak in 2004, and China is by far the largest sending country for U.S. intercountry adoption. If adoptions are halted for a long period of time, 2020 could see the fewest international adoptions by U.S. families in decades.
We often say that adoption is full of surprises, but this is a truly unique situation. If you are in the process of adopting from China, stay in close contact with your adoption service provider and continue to monitor adoption.state.gov for updated information.

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The Story Behind the ReMoved Anthology Project https://consideringadoption.com/the-story-behind-the-removed-anthology-project/ https://consideringadoption.com/the-story-behind-the-removed-anthology-project/#respond Fri, 17 Jan 2020 13:00:00 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7446 A new anthology collection shares the stories of hundreds of former and current foster youth. We talked with co-creator Christina Matanick to learn the story behind the project.

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A new anthology aims to spread awareness of the challenges of the U.S. foster care system, told from those who have experienced it firsthand — current and former foster youth.
The ReMoved Anthology Project,” published May 2019, is a “coffee-table-worthy” collection of poems, stories and art from foster youth. The inspiring and heartbreaking stories give an inside peek into what it’s really like to be in foster care.
Co-creators and married couple Christina and Nathanael Matanick gathered submissions from current and former foster children across the globe and worked with artists worldwide to create the anthology, funded by Kickstarter backers last year. The anthology is an extension of their video series, ReMoved, which they started during their process to become foster parents. The Matanicks found little content to help them understand the world of foster care beforehand and so stepped in to fill the gap.
“A lot of people feel like their story is the only one out there — that no one else has experienced that kind of difficulty — and they feel alone,” Christina says. “Unfortunately, it is a common experience.
“We want, for those to have experienced this, to not feel like there’s something wrong with them because of their childhood experience.”

The ReMoved Film Series — and the Birth of an Anthology

Back in 2013, the Matanicks were in the midst of their own foster care journey — the journey to become foster parents. Along the way, they were inspired to share the voices of the kinds of children they were trying to help. Thus, “ReMoved” was born.
It’s a short film that focuses on a young girl, removed from her family and placed in foster care. The film flashes back and forth between her current placement at a home with a well-meaning foster parent and the trauma she experienced back at her biological mother’s house.

“There were so many people asking us, ‘Why would you be willing to become foster parents?’ The first film was kind of our answer to that,” Christina says. “Sure, it will be hard for us, but imagine what it will be like for that child.”
The Matanicks went on to make two more “ReMoved” films since then. Along the way, they received their first foster placement, who they officially adopted two years later.
Their film series began to draw traction, too. Soon, the Matanicks were receiving constant emails from those who have been affected by foster care, sharing their stories of heartbreak and thanking the filmmakers for expressing their experiences in such a realistic way.
It got the couple thinking: They shouldn’t be the only ones reading these stories. So, they put the ReMoved Anthology in motion.

Creating the Anthology — And Making Waves

The Matanicks put out a call, asking foster care youth for their honest stories. They received hundreds of submissions of art and writing, telling each person’s individual truth and experience.
But, to make the project a reality, they needed the funds. So, they created a Kickstarter to publish the book. More than 600 backers pledged more than $70,000 to help make “The Removed Anthology Project” a reality.
The Matanicks worked with artists worldwide to create the book, which was published in May 2019. Since then, it’s sold more than 3,500 copies, most one-by-one.
Each page contains a compelling story, but one of Christina’s favorite comes from a foster youth named Katie, who recalls the impact her social worker had during the toughest moments of her life:
My last social worker never gave up on me, even though I barely graduated high school. I remember her telling me, “You are more than just your story.” Because I knew I mattered to my social worker, I decided to go to community college… My social worker inspired me to be the caseworker I wanted when I was younger.
Reading Katie’s story, Christina says, “I think that’s profound, to say that you’re not just the sum of what happened to you… Who you are yourself is more than just what you’ve experienced.”
But the couple’s work doesn’t stop with this anthology. They’re continuing to develop more films, including a foster care documentary with Northwestern University about foster youth transitioning out of the system upon adulthood. The Matanicks also encourage foster care professionals, parents, and advocates to use their films for training and awareness. Christina urges individuals to assist their local foster care systems however they can — by becoming a foster parent or resource family, by donating to local organizations, or simply being a supportive figure to any parent or child struggling in your community.
“We’ve just been really inspired and amazed by people that have really gone through awful, awful things, but have overcome and chosen to give back and to make a difference and to try to help other kids… not be alone and know that there’s hope,” Christina says.
You can order “The Removed Anthology Project” online here.

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Tennessee Passes Bill Allowing LGBT-Discrimination in Adoption https://consideringadoption.com/tennessee-passes-bill-allowing-lgbt-discrimination-in-adoption/ https://consideringadoption.com/tennessee-passes-bill-allowing-lgbt-discrimination-in-adoption/#respond Thu, 16 Jan 2020 18:34:40 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7464 A new bill out of Tennessee will allow child-placing agencies to refuse placements with LGBT parents on a basis of “religious freedom.” The governor has said he plans to sign the bill upon its arrival at his office.

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A Tennessee bill protecting adoption agencies’ rights to not place children with LGBT parents is headed to the governor’s desk, all but ensuring anti-LGBT discrimination in adoption will be legal in the Volunteer State.

Like similar “religious freedom” bills presented across the nation over the last few years, Tennessee’s bill prohibits requiring any private child-placing agency in the state to place children for foster care or adoption if doing so violates “the agency’s written religious or moral convictions.” The legislation also prevents the state from denying a license or government grant to agencies if it refuses a placement on those grounds.

Supporters of the bill argue it will protect the religious freedoms of agencies, but critics point out what many in the adoption industry already know — that LGBT individuals adopt out of the foster care system at a higher rate than heteronormative individuals. The bill, they argue, will make it harder for children to find the supportive, welcoming homes they need, especially after years in the foster care system.

The Human Rights Campaign, one of the most prominent LGBT-rights advocacy organizations, has released a report questioning whether or not this discrimination violates that widely-held “best interests of the child” standard.

This bill comes on the heels of similar proposals in other states and a national proposal from the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) in late 2019. Republican Gov. Bill Lee has 10 days after receiving the bill to sign or veto it, but his office has already told local paper The Tennessean that he will sign the bill as soon as it reaches his desk.

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Republic of Congo Joins Hague Convention Countries https://consideringadoption.com/republic-of-congo-joins-hague-convention-countries/ https://consideringadoption.com/republic-of-congo-joins-hague-convention-countries/#respond Fri, 10 Jan 2020 15:20:02 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7450 This year, the Republic of Congo will become the 102nd country to enter the Hague Adoption Convention. The U.S. State Department is currently determining whether adoptions from this country will become available to American citizens.

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On April 1, 2020, the Republic of Congo will officially become the 102nd country to enter the Hague Adoption Convention. The U.S. Department of State is currently determining whether the U.S. will process Convention adoptions from the Republic of Congo in accordance to U.S. law.
The Hague Adoption Convention is an international agreement between countries, establishing safe, legal and ethical practices for the adoption of children across international borders. International adoption agencies encourage American would-be parents to always work within the Convention countries for the safest and most effective adoption process.
The Department of State will post additional Republic of Congo adoption information as it becomes available. Please monitor adoption.state.gov for updated information or contact the Office of Children’s Issues with any questions.

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Adoption in the 2010s: The Biggest Changes We’ve Seen This Decade https://consideringadoption.com/adoption-in-the-2010s-the-biggest-changes-weve-seen-this-decade/ https://consideringadoption.com/adoption-in-the-2010s-the-biggest-changes-weve-seen-this-decade/#respond Mon, 30 Dec 2019 13:00:45 +0000 http://consideringadoption.com/?p=7371 The 2010s was a big decade for adoption, with many major changes to the industry. Here, we look back on some of these big moments over the last 10 years and look forward to what the next 10 years will bring us.

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This month not only marks the end of 2019 but the end of a decade that has brought substantial change to the adoption industry. When looking back on adoption history, it’s amazing to recognize where we’ve come from — and where we’re heading in the next decade.
So, in that spirit, we’ve explored six of the biggest changes we’ve seen over the last 10 years. We applaud the direction the adoption industry is taking, and we look forward to the positive changes we can expect in 2020 and the years to follow!

1. U.S. Legalized Same-Sex Marriage, Protecting LGBT Adoption

After decades of civil rights fights, LGBT individuals finally received the ability to marry a person of the same sex, thanks to the landmark ruling of Obergefell v. Hodges in 2015. But this ruling not only allowed LGBT couples to get married; it also changed how they could build their families.
Many LGBT would-be families were prohibited from adopting with certain agencies and departments prior to this ruling — but it wasn’t outwardly because of their sexual orientation. Instead, many adoption professionals required that adoptive couples be married to be eligible. So, when LGBT individuals could not marry in their own state, they were effectively prohibited from adoption.
Obergefell v. Hodges changed that forever. Now, LGBT individuals can marry in any state and have their union upheld throughout the U.S. They also have the right to adopt as a married couple, if they so desire. While there are still battles to won for discrimination based on religious beliefs, and international adoption presents a whole different set of challenges, LGBT individuals are freer than ever to build their family the way they want to in the United States.

2. International Adoption Continued to Decline

It’s no secret that international adoption numbers have been on the decline. In fact, the U.S. Department of State released numbers this year showing that international adoptions have declined more than 84 percent since 2004. That number is only expected to grow in the years to come.
There are a few reasons for this. Throughout the last 10 years, politics have played a huge role. In 2012, Russia banned Americans from adopting Russian children, stopping adoptions from one of the most popular countries for American would-be parents. Before 2012, Americans had completed more than 46,000 Russian adoptions. The ban was a result of strained diplomatic relationships between the two countries for years, and it doesn’t appear to be reversed anytime soon.
Russia isn’t the only country cracking down on international adoption. In the last 10 years, major countries such as Ethiopia, China, South Korea and Guatemala have either completely banned or set major restrictions on international adoption to the U.S. It’s a reflection of recent investigations into unethical adoption practices and processes, many of which harm the child at the center of the process.
Of course, issues with international adoption aren’t just confined to children adopted within the last decade. With the increased pressure on undocumented residents in the U.S., many international adoptees in their 20s and 30s have discovered they actually aren’t American citizens — and some have even been deported to their countries of birth.
Without major change, it appears that international adoption is a family-building process on its way out.

3. DNA and Ancestry Testing Became Commercialized

The 2010s saw the explosion of services like 23andMe and Ancestry, designed to help the everyday person connect with their biological heritage. But these services were especially important for the millions of adoptees with no connection to their birth family. Countless stories were reported over the last 10 years about adoptees and birth parents being reunited after years and even decades of searching for each other.
While DNA testing services bring positives for many adoptees and birth families, they’ve also changed the closed adoption landscape. Today, birth parents that choose a closed adoption (or semi-open adoption with limited contact) aren’t provided the same privacy as they might have been decades ago. Today, any birth family can be found with a quick swipe of the cheek, leading to just as many disappointing reunions as joyful ones. DNA testing services have also caused just as much heartbreak among those who may not have known they were adopted, revealing unfaithful spouses and untruthful parents.

4. Social Media Made Adoption More Open

On the same note, social media services like Facebook allowed for greater access to family connections than ever before. While DNA services may have revealed who biological relatives were, social media allowed adoptees to easily find and contact them in a neutral space.
Social media has also become a great contact option for developing and maintaining open adoption relationships. The ease of sending messages and photos back and forth has allowed adoptive parents to keep their children’s birth parents up-to-date on their children’s lives, without all the back-and-forth required with agency mediation.
It’s also a source for good when it comes to sharing positive adoption stories. We’ve all seen the viral stories of successful adoption hearings, reunions and more. Social media allows that positivity to be easily spread to millions of people, bringing more awareness about the adoption process and helping people understand just how wonderful it really is.

5. Access to Original Birth Certificates Increased

For decades, adoption legislation favored the rights of a birth parent to remain anonymous — without considering the negative effects that privacy would have on an adoptee searching for their biological identity. Fortunately, advocates have made great strides in the last decade to protect an adoptee’s right to their original birth certificate and birth information.
New York is just one of the most recent states to open up adoption records. Over the last 10 years, states including New Jersey, Indiana, Oregon, and Pennsylvania have opened up adoptees’ access to original birth certificates. While the national landscape for openness in adoption records is more progressive than ever, there are still dozens of states that restrict an adoptee’s rights to their most basic personal information. But new legislation is in the works in several states, and we hope to see the trend of openness continuing in the 2020s.

6. Adoption Stories Took a Forefront in Pop Culture

This decade saw the premiere of our favorite adoption-themed TV show: “This is Us.” Following the story of parents Rebecca and Jack and children Kevin, Kate and Randall, the show addresses all the complications and joys of a transracial adoption, from birth to decades later. And, like with many popular adoption references in the 2010s, writers on the show aren’t afraid to show the challenges of adoption and its reality in the U.S. today.
Take “Lion,” for example. It’s a movie based on a true story of an adopted Indian boy, who returns to his home country in search of the birth parents he was accidentally separated from at an early age. The movie includes all the heartbreak of losing and eventually finding birth family, as well as the complications that brings to the son’s relationship with his adoptive parents. Other standouts from the decade include “Philomena,” “Instant Family,” and the “Despicable Me” series.

The 2010s was a great decade for adoption. It ushered in some major changes that will carry through in the years and decades to come. Here at Considering Adoption, we’re excited for a future where adoption is a normalized, positive part of everyday life.
What were some of your favorite adoption moments from this decade? Let us know in the comments!

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