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5 Months Pregnant [Can I Give My Baby Up for Adoption?]

If you’re 5 months pregnant and don’t want the baby, you might be asking yourself, “Can I give my baby up for adoption at 5 months pregnant?”  

It is never too late to choose adoption for your baby.

Your situation may seem difficult at 5 months pregnant, but we’re here to help. Anytime you’re ready to speak with an adoption professional, you can contact us today.

Whether you’re 18 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby or 22 weeks and don’t want the baby, this guide will explain the options you have available when you’re 5 months pregnant. Keep reading to learn more.

Your Baby’s Development at 5 Months Pregnant

We’ve got good news about the second trimester. Those awful pregnancy symptoms you’ve likely experienced up until now? They’re slowly starting to subside.

As you move towards the third trimester, here’s what you should know about your baby’s development during month five of your pregnancy.

Baby Development By Week
18 Weeks
 

Your baby is getting much bigger at 18 weeks, which is typically when women start to experience the most changes throughout their prengancy. At this point, it’s a good idea to start sleeping on your side instead of your back. We know that won’t make things 100% easier, but it should help some of your discomfort subside.

19 Weeks
 

At 19 weeks, it’s almost time for your mid-pregnancy ultrasound. There, you’ll finally have the option of finding out the sex of the baby. Your window of time may be closing for an abortion, but adoption will always be an option for you.

20 Weeks
 

You’re finally at the halfway point of your pregnancy. Only 20 more weeks to go! Right now, you’re still probably feeling some uncomfortable symptoms, like heartburn, cramps, and swelling.

21 Weeks
 

Now that the third trimester is approaching, you’ll probably feel more of your baby’s movements. Unfortunately, you’re probably still feeling a bunch of those uncomfortable symptoms that you did last week, but every day is bringing you closer to the delivery of your baby.

22 Weeks
 

When you're 22 weeks pregnant you might have a harder time catching your breath as your baby tries to get nice and comfortable. You’re probably experiencing some more not-so-fun side effects of your baby getting bigger, like stretch marks, swollen hands and feet, and backaches. 

If you’re asking, “I’m 22 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, what should I do?” remember that it’s never too early or too late to reach out to an adoption specialist.

Can I Give My Baby Up for Adoption at 5 Months Pregnant?

Yes, you can choose adoption at this stage of pregnancy. At 5 months, you’ve still got quite a bit of time to decide which option is right for you. To help you make your decision, here is a bit more information if you’re 18–22 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby.

Adoption

Whether you’re considering adoption at 18 weeks or asking, “Can you put a baby up for adoption at 21 weeks pregnant?” the answer to that question will always be yes.

Many women consider adoption to be the best decision they could have made for themselves and for their baby. This unplanned pregnancy option can be chosen at any point, and that includes at 5 months. If you haven’t already done so, now would be a great time to start contacting adoption agencies and creating an adoption plan.

Why consider adoption now? There are a few different reasons.

Why Choose Adoption When 5 Months Pregnant?
  1. 1
    Find an Adoptive Family

    When you start the adoption process at 5 months pregnant, you can begin checking out adoptive families online, and you can even filter your search based on your preferences. Starting early will allow you more time to find the best family for your baby.

    Larger, national adoption agencies will have more family profiles to consider. You can keep looking through profiles until you find a family that is perfect for your baby. You are 100% in control of this decision.

  2. 2
    Financial Assistance During Your Pregnancy

    Pregnancy, in general, is getting more and more expensive. If you know that the medical bills are going to be too much to handle, then you will be relieved to learn about adoption financial assistance. Most prospective birth mothers are eligible to have medical, legal, cost-of-living, and other costs covered. 

  3. 3
    Creating Your Adoption and Hospital Plan

    When you are considering adoption at 5 months pregnant, you are essentially halfway through your pregnancy. This allows you plenty of time to create an adoption and hospital plan. This includes things like the type of post-adoption relationship you would like to have with the family, the hospital where you want to deliver your baby, and so much more. 

    Choosing adoption at 5 months pregnant allows you to get all of the pieces in place without having to stress or rush.

If you haven’t had a chance to talk to an adoption counselor yet, and you’re 18–22 weeks and don’t want the baby, you can fill out our free information form to get connected with a licensed professional. They’ll be able to give you information on all of your unplanned pregnancy options, not just adoption.

Other Pregnancy Options at 5 Months Pregnant

Parenting

Becoming a parent is a great choice for many women. If you’re considering this option, now is a great time to get ready for the baby’s arrival in your home.

Start stocking up on essentials and design the nursery you’ve always dreamed of. While you’ve still got a few months to go, we say the earlier, the better! And at 5 months, it’s a good idea to start creating a birth plan so that you can be prepared for your baby’s arrival.

If you’re still feeling “on the fence” about your unplanned pregnancy options at this stage, that’s OK. It’s common for women to worry about which option is right throughout their pregnancy, even after they make their decision.

If you’re having trouble determining which option is right for you, and you’re 18–22 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, please don’t hesitate to reach out to an adoption professional. A specialist can give you information about all of your unplanned pregnancy options, not just adoption.

Abortion

When a woman finds out that she’s unexpectedly pregnant, abortion might be her first option. At this stage in your pregnancy, understand that abortion laws will only become more restrictive for you, and depending on where you live, this may no longer be an option.

Your Next Steps

Deciding what to do with an unplanned pregnancy won’t be easy. But no matter what choice you make, you’ll know when it’s the right one.

Take the time to really think about what you want for your and your baby’s future, and make sure to do plenty of research about all of your options when you’re five months pregnant and don’t want the baby or don’t feel able to parent.

If you’re ready to learn more, please contact us today to get connected with an adoption professional.