Home » Pregnant? » Unplanned Pregnancy Help » Unplanned Pregnancy by Month » 7 Months Pregnant, Considering Adoption [Is it Too Late?] 7 Months Pregnant, Considering Adoption [Is it Too Late?] If you are 7 months pregnant and considering adoption, you might be asking yourself: What are my unplanned pregnancy options at 28–31 weeks? Should I choose adoption or parenting? Is it too late to choose adoption? Many women who are seven months along don’t realize they still have options for their pregnancy. If you’re seven months pregnant and don’t want the baby or just don’t feel you are ready to parent right now, adoption is always an option. Anytime you would like to speak with a professional you can contact us to be connected with an adoption specialist. Below, you will find answers to your questions about your unplanned pregnancy options and the adoption process. Your Baby’s Development at 7 Months Pregnant Whether you’re 28 weeks pregnant and considering adoption or 31 weeks and preparing to parent, here is some important information you should know about your baby’s development. Baby Development at 7 Months 28 Weeks It’s the first week of your third trimester. We bet that by now, you’re probably feeling pretty exhausted. Because your baby is busy cramping up your space, you’re probably feeling shortness of breath, aches and pains, and trouble sleeping. Try to take it easy if you can.If you are 28 weeks pregnant and want to “give your baby up” for adoption, now is a great time to start the process. You can find more information about placing your baby for adoption at 7 months pregnant in the section below. 29 Weeks Even though you’ve got a ways to go, now is a good time to start getting the nursery ready (if you’re planning to parent your baby) and touring the hospital where you’ll be staying. You might also want to start packing the hospital bag so that you can be ready at a moment’s notice. If you’re 29 weeks pregnant and don’t want a baby, it’s still a good idea to start preparing for the hospital stay. An adoption specialist can help you make an adoption hospital plan, which will include some additional details about your adoption process — such as whether you want to see the adoptive parents at the hospital. 30 Weeks Just 10 more weeks left to go! At this point, things are going to start feeling really uncomfortable. Try to find a comfortable position so you can get some sleep at night. If you’re 30 weeks pregnant and considering adoption, an adoption professional can help you make a plan whenever you’re ready. 31 Weeks Your baby is looking more and more like a baby every day. If you’re 31 weeks pregnant and don’t want the baby, now would be a great time to reach out to an unplanned pregnancy counselor or an adoption specialist. Your Unplanned Pregnancy Options at 7 Months Adoption Women who consider adoption late in their pregnancy often have some big, important questions during the seventh month: “Is it too late to give a baby up for adoption after 7 months?” The most important thing to understand right now is it is never too late to begin the process. Adoption helps create a life of love and opportunity for your baby. Understanding the process and the benefits adoption can provide is a great start toward making a decision on what is best for you and your baby. Below, you’ll find a brief explanation of the five steps of adoption. 1 Speak With an Adoption ProfessionalCalling an adoption agency should be your first step if you’re 28, 29, 30, or 31 weeks pregnant and don't want the baby. Trained specialists will go over all of your options and your next steps as a woman who’s 28–31 weeks pregnant and wants to give a baby up for adoption. 2 Make an Adoption PlanThis step is where your assigned specialist will really start to get to know you. They’ll ask you some questions about your plans for adoption, including your ideal adoptive family, how much contact after the adoption you’re open to, what you want the hospital stay to look like, and more. All of these questions will create an adoption plan that’s made just for you. 3 Find an Adoptive FamilyNow that you’re 7 months along, it’s time to really start looking at adoptive family profiles. Your agency will help you with this, and some agencies can help more than others. Large, national adoption agencies will give you a lot more profiles to look at than smaller, local agencies can. Once you think you’ve found the perfect one, you can start getting to know them your texts, conference calls with your adoption specialist, emails, and even in-person visits. When you’re 7 months pregnant and don’t want a baby, you’ll want to find a family as soon as possible. 4 Create a Hospital PlanWith the help of your adoption specialist, you can start creating a hospital plan. You’ll be able to decide how much time you want to spend with the adoptive parents, who will be the first one to hold your baby, if you plan to nurse your baby, and many other important details.After placement, you’ll be able to sign your adoption paperwork. The amount of time you have to wait to sign this document will depend on which state you live in, which your adoption specialist will educate you on to help avoid any confusion or added stress. 5 Build a RelationshipWhen you’re 7 months pregnant and considering adoption, it’s important to talk to your adoption professional about your desires for an open adoption; this will help them search for adoptive parents who are looking for the same type of relationship with you.You control the level of openness, if any, involved with your adoption. If you keep having recurring thoughts of not wanting your baby at 7 months, adoption is often the best option for everyone involved. Please contact an adoption professional to get more information about your options. Parenting Now that you’re about 7 months pregnant, you may be strongly considering parenting. This can be a great option. However, it’s important to make sure that you’re absolutely ready before you choose this unplanned pregnancy option. Is Parenting Right For Me? This is a question that only you will be able to answer. Here are just a few things to think about if you’re 28, 29, or 30 weeks pregnant and you’re considering adoption or parenting: Can I afford to become a parent? Am I ready to be a parent? What kind of life do I want my child to have? Can I provide that life right now? Do I have a strong support system that will help after the baby is born? As a prospective birth mother, you have plenty of resources at your disposal. Whether you’re interested in adoption or parenting, please speak to an adoption specialist as soon as possible to learn more about both of your options. Can I Still Get an Abortion at 7 Months Pregnant? Now that you’re 7 months pregnant, it’s highly unlikely that you’ll be able to choose abortion. At this stage in your pregnancy, there are no states that allow elective abortions. The only time when an abortion is an option at this stage in your pregnancy is in an extreme scenario, like a life-threatening emergency. If you are experiencing a life-threatening emergency, call 911 immediately. Your Next Steps You’ve had a lot to think about during your pregnancy. If you haven’t thought about what your plans are now that you’re in month 7, now would be a great time to speak to a professional about your unplanned pregnancy options. They will give you information on both of your unplanned pregnancy options. Unplanned Pregnancy by Month Months 1 & 2 of Unwanted Pregnancy [What Are My Options?]It might be a little early, but over the past few weeks, you may have noticed a few tell-tale signs that you could be pregnant. 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